Friendship beyond Hastags

“Friendship is the golden thread that ties all the hearts of the world.”

“Friends are the family you choose.”

Friends are the elixir of life, which works better than medicine. At times, we trust our true friends more than our family members to share our inner feelings. You are confident; a friend beyond a hashtag will keep your shared secret and be of help to you at any given time.

There are a lot of phases in our lives. Some good and some difficult phases, which are beyond our control sometimes, and at times they are self-created. Like facing debt and not being able to repay. A friend can be of help selflessly. But one should not take that friend for granted and trouble him often. There is a limit of tolerance. It should be two ways. If the other friend is in trouble, one should be ready to help them.

Many maintain their long childhood friendships beyond Hashtag. They try to be in touch with each other even after 80 years. I have seen two childhood friends still in contact and meet regularly. Attend their children’s and grandchildren’s weddings if health permits. This is such a true and real friendship without any expectations. I really admire them watching them behave like children, giggling, remembering the games they played during their childhood, and how they used to tease some boys when they could not bowl or bat correctly. The bond of 

Friendship is very tight as they do not think of any special needs. They want to meet and talk about the earlier life they’ve spent together and the changes they have seen in many friendships. They feel happy and sad to see some friendships break due to misunderstandings.

I am in touch with some of my school friends just for mental peace. We all met at one of our friends’ houses and had a lovely time, remembering our school years and the present time. 

How some people cheat so easily on their friends which is very sad. 

During my blogging years, I have gathered many friends through our writing, discussion, and talk in video calls. We get to learn from each other the minutes of writing and improving your writing skills.

All is beyond hashtags.

When a friend is feeling low, they can call any friend to share their mind and release their feelings. It is vice versa.

If you collect some true friends in your life, you are blessed by the Lord. Friends act like medicines with their tender and kind talks that heal the mind.

I am lucky to have made friends who inquire about my health, and I too call them once in a while to know about their welfare.

To wish them birthdays and anniversaries on their days is a special feeling. I believe in calling various friends on their special days and achievements and not by dropping a message of congratulations.

This gives me pleasure, and I can feel the other friend’s happiness.

Let true friendship blossom.

-Poornima Sivaraman


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