Valentine’s Day is a time for reflection, a moment to question whether the conflicts we sometimes experience are truly worth it, especially when they involve someone we love deeply. Whenever we argue with someone, we should first consider whether the issue at hand is important enough and whether the person we are fighting with is someone we truly care about. If so, we can pause, reflect, and then decide on the next step.
We may have experienced both joyful and heartbreaking moments with our partners, but what truly matters is whether we remain together despite these challenges. If we do, that is wonderful, admirable, and a truly precious relationship. However, we should not simply endure hardships, for love has the power to make every insignificant detail fade away. In the presence of true love, nothing else matters; it warms the heart.
I have seen people live joyful lives because of love, and I have also witnessed others experience heartbreak. What is important is not only how happily they live despite the pain but also how they handle life afterward. I have seen individuals who once felt trapped by their circumstances before marriage find immense happiness afterward when they meet a partner who fills their life with joy,a sight that warms my heart, even if it is not my own experience.
Isn’t it truly amazing to watch others live happily, even if it is not your own life?. Sometimes, you can’t help but feel happy for them,and that is the magic of love and the wonder it brings into people’s lives. I have also seen cases where women, once treated like queens before marriage, face heartbreak afterward when their husbands seem interested only in satisfying their own needs. Even in such situations, if love is involved, there is something to learn.
When a woman chooses divorce and faces heartbreak as a result, society often speaks ill of her. However, what matters most is how she handles the situation. When she does so with grace and composure, it is both daring and admirable. Coping with heartbreak, especially one that stems from love and leaves a lasting mark on the heart, is not an easy task.
We should learn from heartbreak rather than continuously reopening old wounds. Learning from heartbreak is not about dwelling on the pain,it is about extracting the lesson and moving forward. The woman I mentioned, who faced heartbreak, has taken it in stride by living her life with clear goals and receiving unwavering support from her family. I hope that everyone who experiences such heartbreak receives similar support.
The wisdom I have gained from both joyful and painful experiences is to thank God for sparing me such deep heartbreak and to pray that I never have to endure it. I have learned from happy relationships to cherish the happiness and never take it for granted. Moreover, from witnessing heartbreak, I have realized that simply crying is not enough; one must also rise and face life anew once the tears have been shed. Crying is not a weakness; I have learned this from those who have suffered. If you feel like crying, do so. Holding back your tears only burdens the heart, and that is not the way to heal.
On this Valentine’s Day, I hope that everyone in a relationship has a happy and healthy one, and that those wishing to be in a relationship find the love they deserve.
And if I ever have the chance to be in a relationship, I hope it is a good and genuine one,not one that brings headaches, heartbreaks, and endless tears to my heart and eyes.
The Momma Clan 
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