The Momma Clan

Have you been hurt or heart broken? Has someone cheated on you or told you lots of lies? Have you been abused or hurt by someone you love intentionally? Hi there, There are many ways to forgive such people and move on with your life….. Here are some tips that you can follow….

1. Do not always remember the bad incident. Try forgetting all that has happened to you and continue to move on. Try diverting your mind to something you enjoy doing the most. The best thing is to forget such incidents all together.

2. Forgive the person , if he still means a lot to you. Yes, forgiveness is divine. So, forgive the person from the heart, and tell him not to do such a thing again, as you get hurt. You can then go on with the relationship with love, kindness, understanding  and sympathy.

3. Just remove the person from your life. If you feel that the person who you are dealing with is your enemy, just remove him from your life. Don’t waste your precious energy and time on him. Make your mind and life free from such people, then your heart will be relieved.

4. Forgive and forget. At some point of time if you feel that the person is worthy of your forgiveness, you can always forgive and start the relationship fresh. Make way for a new beginning with a fresh and new start to the relationship.

5. Ignore the person completely. You must completely ignore the person , if he or she is teasing you or bullying you in life or you must take action against his acts by reporting to elders or the police. Acts of crime are meant to be punished and not forgiven.

6. Hurting someone intentionally is not good. If someone is purposely hurting you now and then, you gotta to complain to some higher authority. Don’t try to take the law in your hand or take revenge.Just try staying away from such a person and ignore his or her mischief.

7. As you sow , so you shall reap. The law of karma will take it’s own course. If you can’t do anything about the person hurting you, try avoiding him . Always stick to people whom you trust.One fine day , the law of karma will punish the person and he or she will realise his mistake.

8. Forgiveness releases excess baggage. Forgiveness releases excessive baggage that is stuck in your head. If you think the person is genuine and has mistakenly hurt you, forgive him and feel light in your heart. Then, both of you can move ahead in life.

9. Forgiveness leads to a bright future. If you go on living in the past about all the incidents that have hurt you, you can’t move ahead with your future. The past will only be stuck in your mind. So, don’t keep on holding to your past memories all the time. Move on in life as a bright future awaits you.

10. Ask for forgiveness. If you have committed a mistake or hurt anyone because of your temper, ask for forgiveness, when your mind becomes cool. Take the person for a treat,and genuinely become friends with him. It will surely make your heart feel light and the start of a new relationship.

Mostly, forgiveness is the key to success in flourishing relationships.Pray to God daily,and ask for forgiveness, in case you have hurt anyone intentionally or unintentionally. Remain cool , when you lose your temper, as that will help you not to anyone. Count 10 to 100 numbers, if you are about to hurt anyone with your words in raging temper. It will cool you down.

Before speaking your words, always think of the consequences of your words, whether they are going to cause hurt . Don’t be harsh and angry to others. Always forgive yourself and forgive others. If the person is not worthy forgiving, then just let go of all his thoughts from your life and mind.

-Anu Budhrani, India