The Mandate to Procreate 

Is motherhood limited to a woman? Is she to bear the pain, anguish, and love associated with raising children? Is she alone in this process, and does she believe she is stuck in a never-ending loop of conscious effort?

Why Always the Woman?

Bearing kids, bearing those naysayers, and bearing all in the process of procreation with a partner of her choice. Isn’t the woman to bear the consequences of the child going astray or will there be a collective effort to make children into ideal citizens? 

Before we cover all these aspects, aren’t women well within their rights to discuss and deliberate before procreation attempts occur? Can partners have a long and hearty discussion before procreation enters pleasurable territory, followed by addition to the lineage and glory to the process of parenthood?

The dibbly-dobbly viewpoints are because communication has always been a concern. Add to it, years of conditioning that everything must fall into place as per one partner’s need and desire, and procreation talk can only surface when the deed is done!

Are Women Stuck in this Warphole?

There are an entire clan of women who believe they have not been consulted before their partners took control over their bodies. They were also tricked or coaxed into procreation before they could say a word.

Unfortunately, many women who seem lost in the process of motherhood had to deal with hormones, hot flashes, loss of appetite, and so much more, because their partners were equally confused and never looked at the woman’s needs to be catered to. 

The Procreation Mandate For Life!

The woman still takes control over herself and has a 51 per cent edge in decisions to allow someone to align with her body while making the process of procreation enjoyable and wholesome. The contributing partner plays a 45 per cent role, inclusive of creating a syncretic bond between themselves, while ensuring all touchpoints are considered and administered. The remaining divine percentage includes belief systems, culture and traditions, which ensure that the sanctity of the relationship is maintained and child-bearing is based on the concept of true love, tenderness and affection. 

Between the woman (portal to the world) and the other partner (the guardian of the worldly process), with divine intervention in between, a successful mandate can be achieved where the creator and wilful contributors enter a beautiful process that has and will stand the test of time. 

The hope remains that this mandate will be followed, honored, and accepted to create a world that is inclusive, empowered, and built on the principles of taking humanity towards a brighter and better future. 

Abhishek Haridasan 


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