Earth, the only habitable planet of the solar system, does not differentiate between its children, giving unique characteristics and importance to each individual, whether they are plants, animals, or humans. Historically, two genders were recognized: male and female, with males often holding dominance. Over time, however, our understanding of gender has evolved, and today we acknowledge many different genders. It is up to each person to define their identity.
A developing nation requires every individual to contribute to its progress, much like a child needs both parents for growth. Historically, women’s roles were confined to the kitchen, but they have proven that their hard work and knowledge can drive national development. Today, women are increasingly recognized for their contributions and are gaining opportunities that were once denied. Despite this progress, the perception that women are weak or incapable of handling high-end professions still lingers. Why should we judge people’s abilities based on gender? Nothing is impossible with strong desire and determination. Women excel at multitasking and playing multiple roles throughout their lives.
Women and girls don’t just face discrimination in the name of jobs; they also endure molestation in various places—at work, at home, on the streets—yet they often bear the blame for these violations. Their clothes, choices, and work are criticized, as if these justify the mistreatment they face. But aren’t they humans too? Don’t they have the right to live their lives with freedom? How long will we continue to blame women instead of addressing the flaws in our rules and our nation? How long will girls remain unsafe in our society? How long must they live in fear?
Blame it on the mindset, not the gender. Women and girls aren’t the only ones who face injustice and molestation; these acts of violence are rooted in a flawed societal mindset that perpetuates inequality and injustice. In 2023, global data revealed that nearly 1 in 3 women worldwide have experienced physical or sexual violence, often from an intimate partner. For example, in India, the National Family Health Survey reported that 30% of women have faced domestic violence, despite increasing awareness and legal measures. Yet, gender-based violence isn’t limited to women; men also suffer in silence. A study from the National Domestic Violence Hotline found that 1 in 9 men in the U.S. have experienced severe intimate partner violence. These statistics highlight that the issue isn’t about gender, but about the deep-seated societal mindset that needs to change.
Fear—fear of survival, fear of returning home, fear of going to work, fear of stepping outside, fear of speaking up, fear of making decisions, fear of being blamed, fear of being bashed—this fear controls their lives. We don’t even feel safe anywhere.
The future of individuals or their way of living is often decided by a few members of society who don’t even know us, yet they judge based on appearance, wealth, and material possessions. Women aren’t the only ones facing restrictions on clothing, education, or speech; men also face their own set of limitations and often remain silent about their problems and emotions, unlike women. Society can sometimes be so toxic that even if people try to treat others with equal respect, responsibility, and acknowledgment, they face resistance. However, knowledgeable and sensible individuals are making efforts to ensure that boys and girls have equal rights to education, decision-making, and experiences.
We are quick to embrace modern culture and westernization for entertainment and convenience. Yet, when it comes to adopting values like female independence, girls’ education, and the acceptance of working women, we often turn a blind eye. We seem to forget modernization when it comes to accepting diverse gender identities and supporting the happiness of our fellow humans. We claim to be a society that respects all humans, but do we really? If we did, there wouldn’t be injustice in the name of rules, politics, or the interests of the wealthy.
Diverse gender identities across the world are evolving, and people are increasingly open about their desires and choices. Many now freely express who they love and with whom they wish to share their lives. Although some face criticism or judgment, isn’t it a fundamental right to decide whom we love and how we choose to live our lives?
The world should be a peaceful place for all living beings. We should not be biased based on gender, wealth, education, status, or any other factor. Life is ever-changing, with bright and gloomy days occurring in cycles, much like day and night. We should be able to navigate these changes, regardless of our gender.
We must work towards building a more sustainable Earth for future generations. We should not delve into descriptions based on gender. In fact, we all should work together to create a healthier world. Even if someone engages in discrimination or injustice, we should strive to address and stop it. It is essential to find happiness in our own lives and to wish the same for others, avoiding jealousy and judgment.
I believe gender equality means that every person, regardless of gender, should be free to live how they wish, love whom they choose, and pursue any career they desire. It should be the individual’s choice, not dictated by societal pressure.
Genders are merely labels we have created; in reality, we are all human beings, living for our own happiness and fulfillment.
The Momma Clan 
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